Thursday 19 December 2013

A shave saves a relationship

This is a story of an young girl who married a military ex-service man. Anamika was a 18 year old virgin who had a lots of dreams about her husband. One fine day her step mother told her dad that there is a gentleman who would like to marry their daughter. Anamika's dad was a boneless man he would not do anything against his wife , her step mothers word was final always. So they arranged for a meeting the man who was going to marry Anamika was about to arrive her dreams sore like high tides of the bay of bengal . And finally the man 's family arrived and Anamika's step mother ordered her to come and see them. They were all impressed by her beauty she was a slim fair girl with a normal height and a long curly hair she has applied oil and plated it and kept jasmine flowers on it she had a small bindi in her forehead big coal lined eyes and sharp nose and glossy lips. Her beauty was undeniable then they introduced a man a tall rugged man with a salt and pepper hair that man was in his early forties their was a cruelty in his face and his past life was full of mysteries his 1 st wife died and no one knows how she died .
                     After this Anamika told her step mother she was not interested in marrying him but her step mother forced her to marry him. after a month they got married and Anamika realized she was prejudgemental about his character he was a nice man he took good care of Anamika. Later one day a young man came to their house. He was Anamika's husband's trainee in the military camp his name was Arjun. Arjun was handsome young man with an vibrant personality when Anamika's husband was not in home they started meeting each other Anamika soon fell for his charming character Arjun was head over heels in love with her. He gave her a fulfillment which her husband did not give. Anamika's husband decided to go to his friends daughters engagement meanwhile Anami called Arjun to her house they started an intercourse Arjun was brilliant in bed Anamika was filled with joy a joy which her monotonous old husband can never give with in a second things changed the old man came home and saw what was happening he pushed Arjun out of the house and went inside his room he dint tell anything to Anamika . That night Anamika was crying in guilt her Husband came to her with a kitchen knife Anamika was worried that he is going to kill her. He told her " I love you how can you do this to me I cant hurt you even now but never want this to happen again. Do you know why army men have a summer cut hairstyle in training because when you shave a young man's head you take his beauty from him that gives a sense of obedience and self surrender. That is what I want from you my love..... "  and he started shaving her head with that knife she cried yelled but it was useless she was shorn like a sheep he did not show any mercy until Anamika was fully bald then he said " I love you with this hair style but Arjun would never come near you if you are bald like this. when people in your family ask tell them we had a vow at a temple". And he left........ Arjun never came back to see Anamika...... Anamika has a baby now but still her husband shaves her head every 2 months after 2 years he let her have a flat top hairstyle ...... later he permitted to have a boy  cut with half inch hair........... and anamika never left her husband because no man will like her in that hairstyle .

Thursday 30 May 2013

I am malathi I am 21 years old recently I got married my husband was working in dubai after marriage he went to dubai. my mother in law was a cruel women she was always jealoused of my hair because i had straight hair whereas my sister in laws had curly hair . my mother in law said "korra mudi kudumbathuku nallathu illa". one day my mother in law bought flowers for me but i forgot to keep it in my head she came to me yelling "ivalo alagana mudi iruka thimurula dana enna mathikama poova vadi pova vitta inime ni neenachalu poo vaka mudiyatha mari panuren parru". she left that place next day we went to mari amman kovil where she was talking with a barber for some time and left. I was actually pregnant then she called my husband and said una ponadati nala padiya kalantha pethukanum nu na avalauku motta pottu vidalamnu vendi iruken. my husband said motta la venna amma venuna na potukuren . she said ayyo ava inu onuta sollalaya inaku nanga mari aman kovilla avaluku motta poduratha vendi irukom adu illama karabama irukapa avan engayum velliya pomata ipo potta kolantha porakurathu kulla mudi nalla valanthudum . then the barber came my aunty made me sit the barber started pouring water on my head took a blade out i suddenly got upwent into my room and locked the door. i never came out the barber left after waiting for a hour or  so . my aunt dint tell anything that day got over the next day morning i got up from my bed and when i looked into the mirror i was bursted out crying my aunty has cut my hair when i was sleeping my hair was akward now some places shaved some places the hair was short nothing can be done now it has to be shave i covered my head with pallu of my sari .i went to the same barber he was shocked he asked yarru ma ipdi panna olunga anake motta adichirundurukalam la ipo parru thalaya vella kata nudiyathu then he started his job started at the back of my head slowly finished the back part he said thirumbi okaru ma my hair fell on my lap within a few minites every thing was over nalla motta adichadhum i gave him 25 rupees called him to come home i called my aunt she said nalla kariya panirukinga nalla motta adichurukingale to the barber i told her ama atha nalla motta adikuruaru adan apiye ungaluku adikurathu kaga kuttitu vanden she asked na ethuku motta podanu " ungalu ku peren porantha motta poduratha vendi irunden aduku dan" she tried to move away from that palce i took a scissor and cut her hair bun ipdi dana d enaku irudurunku nee na thungutapa vettune na nee mulichu rukapaye vettuven she had no other go other than to shave her head ..... 

Thursday 9 May 2013

This is a real story,
of a girl living in chennai.....
                 I am  vishnupriya, I am doing my engineering in one of the best colleges in the state.
I studied well till he came into my life , I first met him in college later we became close friends soon our friendship blossemed into true love ..... My dad was a strict disciplinerian he does not like love ,lust etc. One day my dad saw a message in my mobile sent from my lover.he got extremely angry . he started hitting me mercilesly I had a long hair till my knees,straight,soft and lustorus.he pulled my hair hit me hard on my face with a stone. I started crying I was actually yelling in pain,my mom came to rescue me she too got some slaps from dad for not parenting me properly then my dad went out.
I told this to my boyfriend,but after some days he started avoiding me then I realised that he became intimate with another girl.Even after months my father never stopped humiliating me and hitting me. That semester got over during the semester holidays my dad informed us that we are going to madurai for my anty's sons wedding . I have a younger sister she told me that there is something fishy about my dad's behaviour he was planning something else during the wedding. The wedding got over and our dad said get ready we are going to a temple . but my mom said she was tired and she wanted to take rest, but my dad refused. It was a 2 hours travel from madurai we went to palani murugan kovil for me it was my first time in palani . I was neither intersted in god nor in that place. After going there we went to a hotel room refreshed and went to the temple there.......... the worst shock was waiting for me....... that unbearable humiliation....... my dad told "na muruganuku vendi irunden unaku plus two mudichadhu nalla college la engineering kadacha mudi erakuratha"[i vowed to lord muruga that if you score good marks in board exams and get selected in a good engineering college i'll give your long hair to muruga" these words made me tremble in fear i shouted "neenga poi soluringa na love pana kudathu entha paiyanu enna paka kudathu na asingama irukanumnu ipdi panuringa" [ you are purposely doing it because other guys should not fall in love with me] .He said "apdiye  vachuko. ana ipo ne motta potudan avanum"[u have to tonsure your hair]. My mom pleaded dont do that she is a teenage girl it will be a very big humiliation for her how will she face her classmates but my dad turned deaf ears .He called the barber he made my hair loose i never stopped crying he said "aluvada ma kadavaluku kudukuradhu thirumpi valandhudum"[dont cry you are giving it to god it will grow back]. then he spalased some water on my head he made a knot in my hair took out a new blade inserted it and started his job mecilessly cruely inspite my tears. I was begging to my father please dad tell him not to do please!!!! my dad said" you deserve it bitch next time let me see which guy will fall in love with u.... motta mandaya alanchadan unaku buthi varum" [when your head is shaved you  will stop chatting with guys] the blade touched my scalp my long hair started falling I have never cut my hair from 6 th standard but now it was all gone within 5 mins my head was bald . My dad ordered the barber "nalla otta valichudunga"[shave it clean].then he shaved again in the opposite direction later he applied sandal paste on my bald head. Then we went to the temple but there i saw  many womem who have shaved thier head actually felt better. Wouldnt ever forget that humiliation when college started my hair was more or less like boy cut i told my friends i had sinus trouble  so doctor advised me to cut it short every one were shooked looking at my hairstyle.

This was the worst punishment that can ever be given for chatting with a guy.